Polite to Powerful: The Two-Millimeter Shift to Elevated Conversations
Tell me more… At first glance, the phrase “Tell me more” seems like an impactful and thoughtful statement. Often, it is used as a polite prompt to...
6 Powerful Strategies for Turning Disappointment Into Opportunity
Moving on from disappointment without burning bridges is a delicate balancing act. It requires self-awareness and the right communication techniques...
Taking the Mystery Out of Calibrated Questions
Taking The Mystery Out Of Calibrated Questions “Why did you do that?” Did that question make you feel all warm and fuzzy? No. Us either. “Why” type...
Stop Chasing 'Yes': The Game-Changing Negotiation Hack You Need to Know
For years, the negotiation world was obsessed with chasing "yes." We’ve been conditioned to believe that every step toward an agreement should be...
Why Accusation Audits are not confessions
Let’s dive into something I get asked a lot: what exactly are Accusation Audits, and why aren’t they confessions? I know, the term sounds a little...
Timing Your Calibrated Question: How to Use “How Am I Supposed to Do That?” Effectively
"How am I supposed to do that?"—it's one of the most powerful phrases in negotiation, but most people fumble the timing. This Calibrated Question, an...
How To Instantly Create Collaboration to Get What You Want
The Black Swan Group has created a list of 10 Magic Wand phrases to instantly transform any negotiation. I will be revealing each of these in a...
How Negativity Is Silently Destroying Your Relationships—And How to Stop It
Transforming Negativity into Growth: How Tactical Empathy Can Save Your Relationships and Negotiations Negativity can be one of the most destructive...
The Questions That Will Tank Your Negotiation (and What to Ask Instead)
If you’ve been in any negotiation, you know that the questions you ask aren't just about gathering information—they’re tools that shape the dynamics...
Understanding Tone and Triggering: A Story of Communication Dynamics
Imagine walking into a negotiation room, where three distinct characters are waiting to discuss a deal. There's the Analyst, quietly focused on their...
Mastering Negotiations: Countering Yes Tie-downs for Greater Control
What Steps Are Necessary To Counter The Use Of Yes Tie-downs? The Black Swan Group works hard to give you the edge in negotiations and difficult...
Key Concerns for Different Negotiation Conflict Personality Types: Likability vs. Being Liked
In the world of high-stakes negotiation, understanding the interplay between likability and the psychological need to be liked is crucial. These two...